Your wife cannot counter the following 21 charms; they are very effective! I have tried them. They are the most effective charms to keep your wife attached to you... 1. Listen to her. Any man that listens to his wife has solved 80% of her problems. Most women don't need your solution because they know you can't help them. All they need is a listening ear. Don't even say a word. Just listen with rapt attention. That's all. A simple "It is well" at the end is OK. 2. Respect: Respect her opinion; never shout even if she makes mistakes; correct her in love. 3. Care/pet: care for her, call her sweet names sincerely; your words and action must agree. If you keep calling her uncomplimentary names, she'll one day become what you've been calling her. "Fine Girl", " Sweetie", "Under-16" are some pet names that can make your wife younger... 4. Discover and cover: Marriage is an institution of forgivers. Anytime...